The 8 Tenets That Make Confident Men Exceptional Lovers

What makes a man good in bed is more than technique

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To be good in bed is to be desired. Everyone wants to be wanted.

How do you know if you’re good in bed? Ask. Open communication about everything sexual is a hallmark of a man who’s good in bed. If you do it, you can talk about it. You should talk about it because talking about it is part of the fun.

Your sexual experience or lack thereof has little to do with being good in bed. Quantifying technique is impossible. However, if you do these 8 things it’s unlikely you’re a lousy lover.

1. Be the man in your relationship
   Being a man means people feel safe around you. You’re worthy of trust. In your relationship you are an asset, not a burden. You help with the housework, clean up after yourself, and maintain the same grooming standard you did at the beginning of your relationship. Have a job besides fuckboy.
2. Make her feel wanted and valued
   Tell her how good her ass looks in her jeans and how much you’re looking forward to taking them off her later. Express your attraction to her vocally and physically. If she gains weight, roll with it. As women age they feel less secure in their looks. It’s your job to counter it with desire and affection. Don’t be shy, tell the world…